And that’s why you’re here: to build happier relationships —
from the boardroom to the bedroom.
If you want better communication, deeper intimacy & connection, intense passion and hotter sex — all in the context of a busy lifestyle — get started with our FREE podcasts, articles, Q&As & in-depth video courses.
Because happier relationships & lasting love don’t happen by accident. You make them happen. And it’s never too late.
I’m Jess O’Reilly and I’m a sexologist. Born in Canada, I’m Chinese-Jamaican on my mom’s side and Irish on my dad’s. I have a PhD in human sexuality with a focus on teacher training in sexual health & relationship education. School-based education is my passion, so if you’re a teacher, parent or student in a public school, reach out, as I’d love to come volunteer in your classroom!
These days, I travel around the world — from Switzerland and India to London and LA to work with couples who want to invest in their relationships just as they invest in every other area of their lives — from health to wealth. And my workshops don’t just focus on sex, but intersect with all things related to communication, commitment, pleasure, joy, love and fulfilment.
At Happier Couples, we want to change the world — one relationship at a time — so we also write books, contribute to articles and share insights on TV with the goal of providing an evidence-based, practical and fun approach to sex and relationships.
This isn’t just about seduction. It’s your ultimate guide to erotic theory & sexual communication.
Packed with practical exercises, techniques, and creative ideas, this inclusive guide is a surefire way for folks of all genders to master the art of pleasure.
Wishing you all the Fs you desire this holiday season: food, family, fun, festivities, fulfillment, fortune, forgiveness, flight, fluffiness and all the feelings. Do you plan the holidays with *feelings* in mind?
The holidays are upon us. Tag someone who has your back. This one is from 2024, but those same patterns likely still exist in 2025. ❣️🦖🥰
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1. Couples who play together don’t just stay together. They thrive. Studies link playfulness to deeper satisfaction in relationships, stronger feelings of security, richer communication and…better sex.🧦
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Lessons from the Together Tour:
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1. You CAN teach an old dog new tricks. One septegenarian couple drove 5 hours from Michigan to Columbus, OH to attend our event! Their secret after 50+ years of marriage? It’s never too late to try new things. “I’m 74 and I’m doing things I never thought I’d be doing. We’re here to learn about all of our options.”
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2. Don’t try to merge identities. This one came from a couple in their 20s: “Once we stopped trying to be the same person, we finally started getting along. We were trying too hard to agree on everything, but everything changed for the better when we let difference feel safe.”
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3. Remember your FUN self. “I was so much fun in my 20s and honestly, I got so caught up with kids and work in my 30s and 40s that I stopped being FUN. I’m so glad I found my way back in my 50s becuase I feel so much lighter and honestly, it’s what kick-started by libido again.”
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