Why Are MILFS So Popular?

Uncategorized Jul 12, 2017

From foot fetishes and threesomes to squirting and vampire orgies, rule #34 of the internet, has yet to be disproven: If it exists, there is porn of it. No exceptions.

Despite the fact that there exists a genre of porn for everyone without exception, there is one variety that rises above the rest in popularity: MILF porn. The MILF, which stands for “Mom I’d Like to F*ck” is so sought after, that according to A Billion Wicked Thoughts, “mom” is the most popular search term on the world’s largest adult content site, Pornhub.com.

To help us better understand our erotic fascination with the mother-figure, I enlisted the expertise Dr. Justin Lehmiller, sex educator and author of the popular blog Sex and Psychology. According to Lehmiller, the popularization of MILF porn is not indicative of widespread desire for sex with our mothers.


“MILF is a misnomer. It is just a term that caught on, because it’s short and catchy....

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We Need to Take Revenge Porn Seriously

Uncategorized Jul 12, 2017

This week on Global TV's The Morning Show, Jess discusses the growing threat of revenge porn with Jeff McArthur. This is a growing problem that must be addressed. Check out Jess' notes and video below.

What is revenge porn?

It’s a form of sexual harassment. It’s a sex crime - it’s about power, control and violating consent.

How do you protect yourself?

The only way to really protect yourself is to not take or send nude pics or sex videos. Of course, in some cases (e.g. Mischa Barton), some partners will film you unknowingly.

What should happen if the relationship dissolves?

You should get rid of the photos/videos or at minimum resolve not to share them.

What can we do?

We can refuse to look at the images/videos. Do I want to see some of these celebrities naked? Sure. But I’m not going to violate their privacy?

What about the fact that Blac Chyna has posted nude pics on her own social media accounts?

We need to stop shaming the victims. If I had sex with you...

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5 Ways to Have the Best Orgasm Ever!

Uncategorized Jul 05, 2017

The glorious orgasm is a central feature of sex and some might describe it as the ultimate experience of pleasure. However, the paths to orgasm are varied and there is no perfect formula of reaching the big-O. Some women rely on the power of vibrations, while others are more likely to reach climax with a little help from a friendly tongue.

And though a rare few can reach the heights of ecstasy through breast play and fantasy alone, the experience of orgasm can be highly elusive. An estimated ten percent of women have never had one and the vast majority (approximately two-thirds) do not reach orgasm consistently during intercourse alone.

While positive body image, fantasy, reduced stress levels and engagement in a variety of sexual acts are positively correlated with the experience of orgasm, we have a few more specific suggestions designed to help you discover new pathways to bigger, better orgasms:


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If you have a detachable shower head...

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The Hardest Part of a Relationship

Uncategorized Jun 29, 2017

Jess took to Facebook to ask her followers what the hardest part about their relationships are. Here's what they had to say:

"Making decisions as a couple. Or learning to read your wife's emotions. Does she not feel well? Is she pissed? If she's pissed is it at you? She gets mad that I ask what's wrong and the typical response is "nothing". I've just resorted to assuming I'm the point if her frustration and hide." - Chris

"Saying you are sorry even if you know you are not the one who started it, but want to make peace not war and make love not hate." - Jack

"After you have an argument... and you realize that it was entirely your fault, but you were heated and upset.
So you argue hard, and say some stupid shit...then you realize you fucked up and trying to admit that you were the idiot. forgetting about the stupid shit you said after you two made up. That's tough for me." - Wayne

"Waiting for them to tell you what is bothering them." - Carrie



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Simple Summer Sex Tips Rooted in Science

Uncategorized Jun 28, 2017

We’ve waited all year for summer to roll around and it’s finally here! Take advantage of the beautiful weather and try out these simple sex tips to make it the best season yet!

Explore Hot & Cold Erogenous Zones

As your skin adapts to prolonged periods of heat, your sensitivity can decrease, but a little temperature play can reinvigorate your sensual response. The areas of the skin most sensitive to heat include the fingertips, nose and elbows while the upper lip, chin, nose, chest and fingers are more responsive to cold. Get creative this summer using warm oils, frozen grapes, popsicles or chilled champagne to add some well-timed temperature changes that will awaken your senses in the most erotic of ways.

Switch to Deodorant (as opposed to antiperspirant)

A little sweat can breathe new life into a stale sexual routine, as perspiring involves the secretion of powerful sexual chemicals known as pheromones. Not only do these...

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Advice for Relationships With a "Third Wheel"

Uncategorized Jun 27, 2017

Do you have a friend who serves as a third wheel to your relationship tricycle? This morning, Jess sat down with Jeff McArthur on Global TV's The Morning Show to discuss the benefits of couple-friend threesomes and offer some practical advice. Check out her notes and video below.

What should you do if you feel like a third wheel?

  • Know that the latest research is falling on your side: new research suggests that singles report higher levels of fulfilment, self-determination and personal growth.
  • In terms of practical strategies, cultivate a relationship with both parties and consider making plans with one member of the couple at a time.
  • Introduce them to some of your other friends and let them know if their lovey-dovey (or conflict) behaviour is making you uncomfortable — they may not even realize it.
  • And of course, be happy for them!

What are the benefits of being the third wheel?

  • You get the best of both worlds — social support as well as the freedom to grow....
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How to Get Along With Your In-Laws

Uncategorized Jun 20, 2017

Do your in-laws cause rifts in your relationship? This morning on Global TV's The Morning Show, I discuss why these conflicts exist and what you can do to avoid them in the future. Check out my advice and the video below.

A British study suggests in-laws are to blame for marital strife.

1. What did this study find?

  • According to the 2000 husband and wives surveyed, 60% blame their in-laws for fights in their marriages.
  • 20% report that they lack privacy in their relationship because in-laws drop in unannounced and/or overstay their welcome; this would certainly vary by culture, as in some cultures (like mine!), it’s not uncommon for parents to live with their grown-up children.
  • 19% report that borrowing money from in-laws (for home purchases) may be to blame for their interference in their relationship.
  • One-quarter report that they would not have gone through with the marriage had they known how bad the “in-law” problem would be.
  • 18% have considered splitting up...
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The Four Phases of Forgiveness

Uncategorized Jun 19, 2017

This week, Jess discusses the importance of forgiveness on Global TV's The Morning Show with Jeff McArthur. She briefly outlines the four stages of forgiveness therapy and the benefits of forgiveness in the video and summary below.

How do you forgive someone who has wronged you?

First you need to understand what forgiveness is. Forgiveness isn’t just about saying or hearing you’re sorry. And it’s not about declaring your forgiveness to the world. Forgiveness involves letting go of negative feelings — it’s a conscious choice by someone who acknowledges that they were wronged (i.e. they weren’t deserving of the poor treatment), but opts to let go of the negative feelings nonetheless. And forgiveness is a distinct process from other responses; when you forgive, it’s not the same as condoning, forgetting or excusing behaviour.

Once you understand the meaning of forgiveness, how do you put it into practice?

You can follow the...

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How to Move on From a Cheater

Uncategorized Jun 08, 2017

If your ex cheated, diving back into the world of dating can be intimidating. But being cheated on doesn’t mean the end of romance, intimacy and happy relationships — in fact, it’s just the beginning. If your ex cheated, you can still find love, fulfilment and commitment - and you deserve it all.

Consider these strategies for moving onward and upward:


Do not accept responsibility for a cheater. Know that it’s not you — it’s them. Your ex cheated because they chose to cheat. You were not the “cause” of their cheating, so there is no reason to assume that your next partner will cheat too.

Date outside of your comfort zone. Do you have a certain “type” to which that you tend to be attracted? Try getting to know different types of people and hang out in different venues to see if your attraction is broader than you realized. You might attract someone with whom trust arises...

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5 Toys To Revolutionize Your Sex Life! Part 2

Uncategorized Jun 07, 2017

Continued from Part 1 here...

3. Astroglide Sensitive Skin Gel
You know how much I love lube! Sex is simply hotter with the addition of this sexy, slippery stuff and if you have reactive skin, b1f1521c-83b1-40a2-b40a-e63b6e824197_1.30fe008a7dfacff35e9df874571c34eeAstroglide’s Sensitive Skin Gel may be just what the doctor ordered.

Try these sexy ways to apply lube to your lover:

  • Apply to your palm and then squeeze your hand in a fist allowing the lube to drip sensually over their most sensitive spots.
  • Blindfold them and use a soft-bristled makeup brush to create a sensational experience.
  • Roll a few drops over your lips and use your mouth as your applicator.
  • Apply with your fingertips and then breathe warm air over the wet spots.

4. Ben Wa Balls
These nifty devices have seen a resurgence of popularity since the release of the Fifty Shades trilogy and I really love the Scarlet Couture Glass Duo Balls.

You can use them to perform Kegel exercises as prescribed by your pelvic floor physiotherapist and they can be used for enhancing...

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